Can someone please tell me what the fuck is going on? As a 25 year-old girl possessing a Bachelors or Masters degree, having $100K in student loan debt, and your only option is a $15/hour job? Who screwed this whole thing up? I want to rip them a new one.

Oh Shit!!!! It was your parents? Ok, sorry! Let’s see if we can fix this.

First a few questions? What do you want? Is this cubicle dwelling, mousy little girl thing really working for you? Is that who you want to be?

Didn’t think so. You want to HAVE, BE, and DO MORE, right??!!

So the first thing we need to do is figure out what you want. What you really, really want!  It shouldn’t be the same as the girl sitting next to you, your best friend, any of the stuff your mom wanted, or even the same shit that I want. It should be uniquely yours. It should have millions of details in it that make your soul fly, make very little sense to other people and most importantly, your stamp of fucking approval better be right on the front.

Sounds tough? Like ugh, this is gonna be a bunch of work? It is…I’m not gonna lie to you. The reason we are in this shitty mess is because our parents didn't ask us what we wanted. They didn't teach us how to make a fucking game plan based on what WE wanted, and they sure as hell didn’t give us the support we needed to get there. That is what makes this whole thing so fucked up!

If you are feeling confused on how to move forward from here, It’s ok! It's to be expected. You weren’t ever given a playbook on how this game works! So lets cry our eyes out for a good 30 seconds and then lets get mad as hell!!!! LOOK!!! The only way you're gonna get to “have it all” is if you stop fucking around and saying thank you for the leftover scraps the world is giving you and make shit happen for yourself.  THIS IS UP TO YOU!!!!

GAME PLAN TIME!!!!

#1 Subscribe to my blog and podcast. Every week I’ll be bringing you another important step to keep you on track and together we will go down the path to ACTUALLY being a Strong Independent Woman.

#2 DO THE WORK!!!! The reason we are in this fucking mess in the first place is because some asshole made a bunch of movies showing the chick getting rescued and so we stopped trying to do it ourselves, I mean why should we even waste our time trying when someone is gonna come along and do the work for us!

THIS IS A LIE!!! NO ONE IS COMING TO RESCUE YOU-- BUT YOU!!!

#3 GET HAPPY!!!! I cant help you with shit if you are a victim and a miserable fucking disaster. You gotta find some stuff to be grateful for, see the light at the end of the tunnel, change your perspective, or whatever other metaphor you need to pull your self together so we can make this happen. I need you to bring your A GAME!

#4 Congratulate yourself that this is the first day of your REAL life. You better write this date down and throw an anniversary party for yourself each year because this is when it all changed and when you really started getting what you want!!

Ladies, let’s get rich as fuck!

Xx Kiara