I got this comment from my last post and I want to address it:

Excuse me, what does it mean to be happy? I’m not sure I understood that part of your instructions.

HOW IN THE HOLY HELL DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW TO BE HAPPY? Have you ever experienced joy? Pure fucking bliss? A moment in your life where you are literally so in love with who YOU are and what YOU do that you cry spontaneously like a baby in  gratitude?

No? It’s ok!!!!! Not many ladies know how to either. It’s because of this bullshit story we’ve been sold. It goes a little like this…”Hey, do all this crap that takes up all your time, ignore anything that you might want, make everyone else more important,  and make sure you are always fighting to get to “THE TOP” . Somehow this shit makes us “Strong Independent Women”???? YEAH RIGHT!!!!

Welcome to the reality of being a “Weak Imprisoned Hot-Mess.” We are run-down, lost, and just trying to keep it all together. There’s nothing strong about this fucked up deal- except the Whiskey we drink every night so that we don’t kill everyone around us!

So here’s the question that HAS to be asked:

How can you even get happy if you don't know what happiness is? This is where we start and how happy you get depends on how seriously you take this WORK thing. You’ve gotten really good at working your ass off for everyone else, so now it’s time to do it for yourself! I believe in you!!!!

Get a pen and paper and lets go to work!!!!

FIRST JOB!

What makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad?

Left side of paper- what makes you feel GOOD

Right side of paper- what makes you feel BAD

TAKE AS MUCH TIME AS YOU NEED!!!!

OK, done? Have a list for each that is at least 15-20 things? If not, add to it because what I’m about to tell you is really, really simple but will be a challenge if you don't have enough stuff written down.

#1 Read the GOOD side of the list. Do all this shit as often as you can! Like every minute of every day, DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!

#2 Read the BAD side of the list. NEVER NEVER NEVER do any of this shit, no matter what!!!!! Avoid all this shit whenever possible! If you have people on this list-

FUCKING UNSUBSCRIBE!!!!! See, I don't make your life happy, you boss doesn’t fuck it up, and your friends don’t make it sad – YOU DO. And if you allow yourself to do the shit on the BAD side of the list, knowing that it makes you feel bad- it’s on you. And if you neglect yourself by forgetting to do the shit on the GOOD side- that's on you.

LOOK HOW FUCKING POWERFUL YOU ARE!!!!

Now I know how crazy this seems, like, WTF I am saying? But just think about it for a minute…you create ALL the good, you create ALL the bad, you choose to do things that make you feel good or make you feel bad…that sounds like some pretty powerful shit right there!!!!!

ALWAYS REMEMBER: As powerful as you are, you don’t have the power to control other peoples fucked up behavior- you only have the power to control your own and decide how you feel about theirs, and also if you are gonna let their bullshit take you down or fucking soar inspite of it. SO take this power thing out for a spin. Play with it. Dress it up and put some heels on it. Create some good, and in the even that you are feeling particularly sadistic, create some bad. See just how powerful you are.

Ladies, here’s the BIG secret! If you wanna rule your own fucking world, you gotta know how to make yourself happy FIRST, and most importantly how to get back to being so insanely happy when bullshit comes your way!

Have fun and let me know how it goes, I wanna hear all the great shit you are creating!

Ladies, let’s get fucking rich!

Xx Kiara