To translate that for you, I am almost 40 and yes, captivity.

The only difference between me and you is that i’ll admit it...well and something else, the fact that i’m almost free.

Wait, well maybe you don’t even know you’re being held captive???  Let’s do a little exercise and see if you actually are.

1. Do you decide what time you go to work? Like can you just not go in today and still make money?

2. Are you in charge of how much money you make? if you decide you need to make $300 for 30 minutes of work can you do that? Can you get someone to pay it? or $500? $1000? $2000?

3. Do you get to decide where you want to be in 3 months? 6 months? 1 yr?

If you had a bunch of NO’s up there i have to break it to you, YOU are ALSO in captivity. You’re being held captive by the environment around you and you didn’t even know it!

But it’s not really your fault, It’s been set up that way. For some of us we grew up with it, we saw people around us being held down and thinking they didn’t deserve to have “it all”, we went to schools where we were told that we didn’t have a lot of options or that this is where we belonged, so we accepted our fate. It made us think small, get intimidated by people with power and when shit goes wrong, we let it take us down, and some of us don’t get back up.

Wanna know what is your fault? Staying in it even though we know it feels horrible to be there! So how do we become free from captivity and live a life of freedom? not gonna lie- it’s pretty challenging, but if you want it bad enough i know you can get it!

So goal setting isn’t the same for everyone, this is the reason why most eople are still being held captive. They keep reading books and following some fucking flow chart on how to make a habit, 30 day, dream board bunch of nonsense and they lose before they even get started. I’ll say it again, GOAL SETTING IS NOT THE SAME FOR EVERYONE!!!

Firstly, you have to know why you want this goal, like is it really gonna make your life better, make you happier, make you feel good? Or is this another thing youre gonna do for someone else? For those of you on the 12 month program, we’ve just done 5 months of work on ourselves in order to get you ready to answer those questins correctly.

REMINDER- goals are not action steps! they are things like: be happier, be financially secure, have better relationships, be healthier- they are not- go to the gym, get a six pack, make $1mil, read 10 books.

Second, where are you?????? if you are living in fear and anxiety every day, do you think youre gonna be able to reach for the stars? If you havent found a job you like enough to stay at, how are you gonna start saving for a house and building a better life? Where you are plays a huge role in how far you can get with this whole goal setting insanity!

Third, make sure you want it, wanna do the work and are not ok if you fail. Failure CANNOT be an option, if it is then you won’t get it, and you’re just wasting your time and the time of everyone around you.

It’s gonna take a minute to find something that fits all this criteria, so don’t worry if the first few things you want can’t pass the test. Make a list of shIt you want, goals to be set, and then work through them in this order.

*GET CONNECTED WITH WHY YOU WANT IT!

*HOW HARD IS IT GONNA BE TO GO THERE FROM HERE?

*IS FAILURE AN OPTION?

Let me know when you find one that passes all the tests and then we can start to have a bunch of fun getting it!

Let’s get rich as fuck!!!!

Xx Kiara